The Secret
This is a means to change your life and is a 'system' of self belief.
Some background:
Negative Emotions
Wrath, greed, sloth, pride, lust, envy and gluttony, fear, guilt.
There are many aspects of life that are difficult to manage. Confusing us as we live but they can be summed up with the word - "fear"
Fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of success. fear of getting through the day.
These fears manifest themselves in stress, guilt, envy, sloth, overeating, under-eating, substance abuse (alcohol, smoking, pills, drugs).
There are variations such as adultery, excessive fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, emulations (copying someone), wrath, strife, sedition, heresies, envy, murder, drunkenness, revelling, "
Positive Thinking
One way to overcome that which we fear is the power and motivation that comes with "positive thinking'.
Many books have been written about how to change your life for the better. How to overcome failure and achieve success.
These books all have common theme of achievement through gaining personal possessions, money, position in society, fame as the ultimate gain or outcome from positive thinking.
None of these 'possessions' can we take with us when we die (crossover to the spirit world).
So why do we measure success by how much we have? and failure by how little we have?
Life is for Living
It is important to realize that we have to live first.
Earning money to exchange for food and housing, the means to get around, healthcare, education and so on.
When we are able to provide enough for ourselves (the basics) we are then in a position to help others.
The desire to gain more possessions often gets in the way of really living and Its also our desire to continuously have more that makes us insecure about what we have and where we are heading.
Security
Financial security as well as food, housing etc are the basic needs in life. We pay them attention when we don't have them. When we have those 'basic' needs fulfilled we turn our attention to other things in our life. What makes us happy or sad? the feeling of belonging. often we look for external means to make ourselves content or happy in life.
Unfortunately this does not answer our underlying emotional security. How do we feel love? Where do we get love? What truly makes us happy.
A sense of belonging, of being part of something, whether its a marriage, a community or an organisation we need that feeling of belonging.
How can we achieve that through external means? often the external sources come with strings attached as well as flaws that mean we need to compromise on what we believe. True belonging is with ourselves. Finding that peace and tranquility inside us all means embracing the love of the universe as well as our inner core.
The Core
Our core, the very heart of us is always our feelings. Allowing ourselves to feel, being open to others, often means taking on their insecurities and flaws. This can hurt us but we do it anyway because we are searching for happiness and joy in our lives.
Many of us find this joy and happiness with another, a soul mate and partner, even if we have to compromise and work at the relationship during difficult times.
The love we have inside us is always there but as we are hurt we learn to protect it and build walls to hide our feelings.
How do we strengthen our core and at the same time minimize the risk of hurt and rejection?
Love
Love is all encompassing. We only need to embrace it for ourselves. You can not do it for others. Show how much you can benefit from the love you have within and be an example to others.
Love is from inside. Not for specific people or situations but in general, for the beauty of the universe and life itself. Love the world around you, Its beauty and existence.
Gratitude
Be grateful for what you have not what others have. Your happiness is not conditional upon gadgets or devices, an extra car or a bigger house. This shows true maturity and evolution of the soul.
“Whoever has gratitude will be given more, and he or she will have an abundance. Whoever does not have gratitude, even what he or she has will be taken from him or her.”
By taking that step forward yourself you join a worldwide collective consciousness capable of changing the world into a better place.
Case Example 1:
In 2001 a friend of ours (who was 21 at the time) used a manifestation in the same way that is referred to in the "Law of Attraction" to get what she wanted and bring about her wishes. It worked amazingly well. She achieved career success and also a new and fulfilling relationship. For about 12 to 18 months everything she wanted she achieved. From the smallest thing to the biggest thing. Everythign worked.
Then it slowed down and stopped. She did not understand why. For 6 years she tried to repeat that manifestation but without success.
Several years and more passed as she tried to understand why. Finally she was able to understand.
This is why it changed for her:
1 She has a partner now. Her partner has different wishes, dreams, desires etc. As a couple if the manifestation of belief is not the same then it will not happen. It must be beneficial for the both of them as a union or it won't happen. Doubt by one or mroe of the partners occurs and it 'blows out the whole process'.
2. Multiple choices of roads. When we are young we want something or one thing with all our hearts. So it is easy to focus our attention on that one thing. Our hearts and minds are as one. One Direction.
As you grow older desires and wishes overlap and interfere. So evolving personally means compromise and multiple choices to be made. What would she like best? one thing or another? There is little conflict between mind and spirit when younger but more choices means more conflict as you get older.
3. And the third reason is Purity. Purity is positivity in the heart. Removing fear, doubt, guilt, envy, frustration, anger, resentment etc. When younger we see with fresh eyes not clouded by experiences that are negative.
It seems obvious that those who are able to manifest what they want are alone. They are acting in a selfish manner. Selfishness is the love of oneself above others. This is crucial in self-empowering.
So to be alone and selfish is the best way to manifest what you want. It is the act of being part of something else, like a relationship, that stops and blocks the Law of Attraction in her case.
There is a way for couples to manifest and that is to be united in their dreams and goals.
To enhance this you can use a simple magnifier to boost the energy involved in the manifestation.
A crystal quartz will do nicely for that.
Finally using visualisation will be the key.
There is a cautionary tale that comes with Manifesting and Attracting what you want. - BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.
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More case studies will be added from time to time.
