Are You Ready?
The majority of people think that when someone seeks a “psychic reading” it's because they want clarification on certain situations or people in their life. While that's true in most cases, there's still a surprisingly high number of people who show signs that they're not ready for the information they claim to be seeking. This article will focus mainly on how to identify clients who are not ready or will struggle with hearing the truth behind the situation that brought them to you.
First it's important to acknowledge that we are all on a journey which in basic terms could be compared with school. We begin from Birth and we progress through various stages to reach University and beyond. This is sometimes referred to as the School of Life. We make mistakes and we learn from them. We meet people along the way who help us learn lessons and grow. As we change and develop (expand our consciousness) our perception of ourselves, our loved ones, and our world (in relation to the entire world) also goes through changes. This manifests itself through changes in how we communicate with others and/or respond to life events that unfold along our path. Our constant changing self alters what we want and how we want to get it.
Taking time to evaluate your own level of personal growth or “Emotional and Spiritual IQ” is key if you want to have a healthy mindset. However, there are certain things that, if not healed, can lead to blockages in our growth as a person. Abuse, neglect, poor social/economic background, negative inner dialogue, skewed interpretation of the information we process on a daily basis. From TV commercials to eavesdropping on a conversation everything processed through our five main senses has a 50/50 chance of having either a positive or negative impact on your existence. The choice is yours that is where free will and free choice comes in.
Dr. Hawkins and Linus Pauling's Nobel prize winning thesis (converted to the book “Power vs. Force”) used Kinesiology to measure the frequency of human emotional states. The lowest, most self-destructive human emotion on the chart was GUILT, it scored lower than RESENTMENT and ANGER. If we're surrendering to those emotions we begin to believe our own skewed perception of what reality truly is and that can lead to feelings of worthlessness, poor self-esteem, eating disorders, mental illness, a sense of being insignificant and thus undeserving. To the other extreme it would be a sense of superiority, being judgmental, controlling, fearful, selfish, dominating, narcissistic, egocentric, and anti-social.
These are traits of a classic textbook “sociopath” or what some would call “entitlement junkies”.
Entitlement Junkies are not always materialistic selfish people. Entitlement can be an assumption that there are certain things in life that they are ‘supposed to have’ and when they seek a psychic reading, the only thing they want to know is WHEN that will happen. WHEN they will get what they want, desire, seek, or even deserve to have!
This is how a psychic reading can be quickly derailed. A psychic isn’t there to reassure you that you will have what you want. A psychic is there to tell you what they see and if that doesn’t correlate with what you want then a good psychic can tell you why your desires are not materializing.
Occasionally we will read for a client, and at the end they will ‘recap’ what we have told them and end up with something markedly different from what we have just spent the last hour discussing. They grasp the parts that fit in with what they believe they are entitled to, and conveniently forget the parts that require them to do any work on themselves, such as give up an obsession, or letting go of the ego driven need to manipulate someone else’s free will.
When you change the way you do things, you do it for your own good, not to coerce someone else into giving you want you want. That’s not love, its control.
The question you need to ask yourself is, ‘Do I want genuine insight, or do I just want someone to tell me that I will get everything I desire within the next 6 months?’ You also need to ask yourself why - if you haven’t yet managed to achieve your goals based on your current actions and thought patterns - another 6 months is going to make a difference to anything.
Change comes from within, there is no quick fix, no short cut and a reading might not always be what you were hoping to hear, but which is better? A truth you don’t want to hear, or a lie?
1 – Most important rule – Stay away from any psychic, spiritualist or medium that claims you are cursed, but they may be able to help you – for a large additional fee! This is an old scam, and many naïve and vulnerable people have lost a lot of money paying for this “service”. there are occasions where another is trying to 'force' a situation against your free will. This is different and can be helped.
2 – Avoid a psychic, spiritualist or medium that claims to be 100% accurate. It is impossible to calculate that figure. No tool or formula exists to measure the ability of such person. This is false advertisement, as there is no hard evidence to back up their claims. This points towards deception.
3 – No psychic, spiritualist or medium should make you dependent on him or her. If a psychic makes you believe that you need to come back at a later time for more, or if they send you mail or email telling you that they have important information for you, they want your money. An intuitive reading should leave you feeling empowered, not dependent. A good reading should give you direction for the next few months. Except in unusual circumstances, we discourage clients from seeing their psychic frequently or more than once per week.
4 – Keep away from any psychic, spiritualist or medium who tells you only what you want to hear. Avoid those who only tell you fairy tales. Steer clear from those who only give you good news. It is painful as a reader to deliver unpleasant news to the seeker, but if a psychic is telling you that everything is fine, yet you know that things are not so good, then end the relationship with that reader. We try to always tell the whole truth during a reading with some small exceptions where it is in the clients best interest. We almost always look for the positive side in every situation and try to guide my clients towards the best possible outcome, but the truth is – life is not all fairy tales.
5 – Keep away from spiritualists who offer to remove curses, cast spells and perform black magic for a large fee. These people are after your money. Changes in your life can only come from within YOU. We will offer you the tools and direction if you want to, but we can’t do things for you.
6 – NO ONE can tell you for sure what your future will be because your future is always changing. You are always changing. You have control of your life, how you respond to life – you make decisions, you can influence, you can change our mind, you can choose where to put your efforts, etc. An intuitive reader can “see” into your possible future by reading your energy patterns and reading the energy that is present NOW. You will change, and as YOU change, so does your future. We give readings every day in which we predict things that later come true, but it is only because the subject of the reading had the power to change it and they did it themselves.
7 - Forcing. We have talked about this elsewhere on the site. Attempts to force personal change or change in circumstances. i.e coercion to bring a loved one to you or force growth in spiritual awareness. Weight change and so on. These are dangerous methods to use. When offered this by a psychic you should stay away. Forcing comes not from the Angels but from the darkside and will bring chaos and worse into your life.
We hope this guide will help to explain psychic services and methods.
People need to be their own "ologist" (an expert in) their own lives and their own soul path.
Too many are looking for answers from others that they should be obtaining from their own higher self. When you go to your own soul source for answers they are not tainted through another's perception. So many have been disillusioned because they believed another's truth to be applicable for themselves and felt disappointment when it didn't come to pass.
Go straight to your personal source. Be your own expert.