Relationships

Nearly everyone desires to be loved. Everyone deserves the chance to love and be loved which is why we search for people to love us. This starts at home then with friendships and finally romantic partnerships.

Parental love commences with approval of our actions and activities. School is social interaction feeling the need to be part of a group structure. As we grow up and change we search for the one that can “complete” us. That will love us as we love that person.

Is this possible for everyone to find? Do we stop searching or compromise?

The availability of potential partners is a factor. The quest for love is sometimes demanding and we get disheartened and give up too soon. How can we try and overcome our own blocks and attract/find the love we seek.

Some simple steps to follow to try and overcome these obstacles:

⦁ Try and understand your relationship behavior.

Do you make decisions too quickly?

Act in haste, repent at your leisure. Entering relationships and not listening to our intuition can lead to disaster. Overlooking character traits that become a problem in the long run. Being too rash reduces the chances of a successful relationship.

⦁ Letting go of the past

Do you begin an new relationship before “self” is healed?

Life throws negative experiences our way.  Lessons are important but these need to be learnt and put firmly behind you to enable growth and prevent past experiences from impacting negatively on the chances of the current or new relationships from working. This is especially important when its difficult to forget an ex partner and it becomes harder to move on.

⦁ Open Dialogue

Can you clearly communicate what you need and want?
So the way you explain clearly understood?

Is your partner capable of verbalizing his/her wants and needs? A key to a successful relationship is communication and discussing each others needs. Everyone is different and understanding those differences and how to have your own fulfilled as well as fulfilling theirs is not easy.

⦁ Setting Boundaries

Do you set boundaries?

Let your partner know if something is not acceptable in a calm clear manner. This adds value and boundaries in the relationship. For example: being over friendly with a person of the opposite sex or spending too much time and energy on others outside the relationship. There are limits on how far you can push someone to do what you want them to do. Encouragement and engaging proactively with your partner instead can achieve better results. Listen openly when your partner sets boundaries.

⦁ Identify Wants

Do you know who you are? What you want from a love interest?

Remembering who you are and not immersing yourself in the others needs and wants does not lead to a balanced relationship. The most difficult issue is getting an honest answer about your partner.

⦁ Connect

Has euphoria of a new love interest ever hurt the “whole” of one's life?

Often a new relationship impacts on everything else that person has in their life. Other friendships and relationships are damaged and the focus is on the partner. Is this not healthy for long term healthy partnerships. A balance between time together and time apart is important.

It is easier said than done. Trust is an issue with one or both partners negative experiences. Imbalances result in domination or submissive behavior, again not healthy. Taking the time and following some simple steps daily can and will help to build a sustainable and healthy long term relationship.

Always remember if you don't follow these steps it might result in a failed relationship (again).

For advice and a helping hand putting these steps into practice we offer our help as psychics and counselors with many years experience of relationships and partnerships.


Relationships! How hard is it to make it work? What happens when it falls apart? How can we fix things? Where do we go from here? Is there a solution? Advice, a way forward, look within? Ask for higher guidance? Answers come from clarity. Clarity is what we all seek and where better to seek answers than the Psychicircle's very own couple. We are here to help with both a male and female perspective.

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